Tuesday, 5 February 2019

Wedding Readings

I am often asked to provide examples of readings for wedding ceremonies.  I thought it might be a good idea to start a collection here.  So, perhaps weekly, or thereabouts, I will post a suitable reading for anyone to use.  I will be posting the same readings on my Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/wedding.officiant.Bonnie

The first will be from Les Misérables – Victor Hugo

"The future belongs to hearts even more than it does to minds.

Love, that is the only thing that can occupy and fill eternity. In the infinite, the inexhaustible is requisite.

Love participates of the soul itself. It is of the same nature. Like it, it is the divine spark; like it, it is incorruptible, indivisible, imperishable.

It is a point of fire that exists within us, which is immortal and infinite, which nothing can confine, and which nothing can extinguish. We feel it burning even to the very marrow of our bones, and we see it beaming in the very depths of heaven…

What a grand thing it is to be loved! What a far grander thing it is to love!
The heart becomes heroic, by dint of passion. It is no longer composed of anything but what is pure; it no longer rests on anything that is not elevated and great.

An unworthy thought can no more germinate in it, than a nettle on a glacier.

The serene and lofty soul, inaccessible to vulgar passions and emotions, dominating the clouds and the shades of this world, its follies, its lies, its hatreds, its vanities, its miseries, inhabits the blue of heaven, and no longer feels anything but profound and subterranean shocks of destiny, as the crests of mountains feel the shocks of earthquake.

If there did not exist someone who loved, the sun would become extinct."

Saturday, 1 December 2018

Thursday, 5 April 2018

When It Rains It Pours


As you all know, I spend a lot of time with my dog, Lola. And my husband, but he doesn't need the constant attention that Lola does - most days. So let me tell you a little story.

This past Valentine's Day, hubby and I were getting ready to have a nice dinner together when I heard this blood curdling scream outside.  I ran out thinking Lola was being attacked by a wild animal only to find her crawling up on our deck with the skin on her tummy hanging off.  We immediately rushed her to the vet who suggested that Lola had caught her tummy on something while she was careening around our backyard like a lunatic (which she does all the time) and it effectively scalped her.  The vet called it degloving (google it) and told us that he would have to keep her overnight to stitch her up.

We picked up a groggy girl the next day and were given instructions to keep her cone on, give her medication on a regular schedule and she could only walk on a leash at fifteen minute intervals (no free backyard runs) for the next 14 days.  So, dog and supplies in hand, we went home.

Everything was going well until Sunday when we went to a friend's house for brunch.  Lola was home with her cone on and brunch was lovely.  However, at 1:00 hubby felt unwell (queasy, vertigo and unsteady).  He had already spent 3 months in hospital last year and was nervous that this was happening again.  So, we went to the emergency ward.  I called a friend to check in on Lola and she was able to stay until 5.  We were still waiting for results from tests by then so I went home around 6:30 to check on Lola and she was fine.  I stayed till 9 and went back to the hospital to pick up hubby.  We left around 11:30 and headed home.  Hubby, by the way, was fine, but will be referred to a neurologist.

We were dismayed to find that Lola had removed her cone and taken out the majority of her stitches.  So shortly after midnight we headed to the vet to have her restitched.  After much lecturing and dirty looks (a story for another time) we left round 3:30 am with our newly stitched up dog.

I know she can't help herself, but it's so frustrating to see the damage that she can do to herself.

UPDATE:  It is now April 5 and I forgot to post this.  You will be happy to know that Lola and hubby are fine and none the worse for wear.  Now, if we can just get through the spring thaw and mud being tracked through the house.  Oh, the joys of having a dog.